Christian Conflict Management Proper 18 (A)
Christian Conflict Management Proper 18 (A) September 7, 2008 By Rev. Ernest F. Campbell We live in a contentious world. We contend with each other; group “A” gets up early and creates a plan for the day. Group “B” gets up at a more reasonable hour and decides that it doesn’t like Group “A’s” plan. The day is then spent, some would say wasted, arguing over which plan is best. We contend with ourselves. I go to buy a new suit and I hear my mother’s voice saying, “Make it practical.” I hear my father’s voice saying, “Make it affordable.” I hear my sister’s voice saying, “Make it stylish.” And, I hear my wife’s voice saying, “Make it soon!” I can tell by the clerk’s expression that I need to make up my mind! I hear myself sighing; it’s not as easy as it looks. When the church meets, be it vestry or bishop’s committee, keeping in mind (plan “A” versus plan “B” and the many voices we each bring to the table), it is no wonder that meetings run late. Then there are the “parking lot meetings”...